Sadie -
While I was feeding you tonight, you scared me.
I was burping you, and after a big belch, you started to get angry. (This is normal; it is your current way of telling me you want more to eat.) Usually when you get mad, the cries are loud and sharp, but in this particular instance, you must have been out of breath, and you made a really weird pre-cry sound for a long time. Your mom and I looked at each other in terror, worried that you might be choking or in pain. But once you got the cry out and I got the bottle back to you, everything went back to normal.
"You must have made her really mad!" your mom said.
We call this recent development in your expression "finding your voice." It is an exciting development to watch, but, as this story illustrates, it can also be scary. It is most scary for me to think about how you will continue throughout your life, as you grow older, to "find your voice" and make decisions that I might not always agree with or be able to save you from.
There are sure to be multiple times as you grow into adulthood, when you will get so mad at me over something, that you'll want to scream and yell and scare me like you did tonight. Please just know right now that I am not perfect, but I'll always want only the best for you, even if we might not agree on what that is.
I love you more than you'll be able to imagine - now or then.
- Dad
Friday, November 30, 2007
Thursday, November 29, 2007
Day 39 : Wakey, Wakey
S.R. -
The favorite part of my day recently has been the early morning moment when I get to rescue you from your crib and get you dressed for the day. As much I as I know I love you, seeing you squirming, waiting to welcome the day makes me feel like I could never love you enough.
Your body wakes up before your eyes open, so you usually still look asleep when I get you up, but you have been crying for some time. And though you look a little put off at being pulled out of the warmth of your blanket, there is always a moment when your cries soften and I get to hold you close and say "Good Morning!"
It is great to start each day knowing that no matter what I have to deal with when I leave the house, you will be waiting for me when I get home. I love you and your mom SOOO much!
- Dad
The favorite part of my day recently has been the early morning moment when I get to rescue you from your crib and get you dressed for the day. As much I as I know I love you, seeing you squirming, waiting to welcome the day makes me feel like I could never love you enough.
Your body wakes up before your eyes open, so you usually still look asleep when I get you up, but you have been crying for some time. And though you look a little put off at being pulled out of the warmth of your blanket, there is always a moment when your cries soften and I get to hold you close and say "Good Morning!"
It is great to start each day knowing that no matter what I have to deal with when I leave the house, you will be waiting for me when I get home. I love you and your mom SOOO much!
- Dad
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Day 38 : Turning Japanese
Sadie -
You got to go on your first visit to a Japanese restaurant with your mom and I this evening. We met our friends Michael and Maren at an oriental eatery so we could consume sushi together. (Well, you actually had your milk, but the rest of us had sushi!)
You were very well-behaved at the dinner table, eating your food, then politely sitting quietly while the rest of us ate. Of course, after we'd had dinner, your mom and I and Maren wanted to take turns playing with you. The owner of the restaurant and several waitresses came by the table to look at how cute you are. I was so proud to be able to hold you up and call you mine.
The restaurant owner said that her daughter learned to use chopsticks before she learned to walk. Hey, there is something to strive for!
I love having meals with you!
- Dad
You got to go on your first visit to a Japanese restaurant with your mom and I this evening. We met our friends Michael and Maren at an oriental eatery so we could consume sushi together. (Well, you actually had your milk, but the rest of us had sushi!)
You were very well-behaved at the dinner table, eating your food, then politely sitting quietly while the rest of us ate. Of course, after we'd had dinner, your mom and I and Maren wanted to take turns playing with you. The owner of the restaurant and several waitresses came by the table to look at how cute you are. I was so proud to be able to hold you up and call you mine.
The restaurant owner said that her daughter learned to use chopsticks before she learned to walk. Hey, there is something to strive for!
I love having meals with you!
- Dad
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Day 37 : Growing
Sadie -
I was late getting home tonight because I went to a funeral visitation after work. An old childhood friend of mine lost his dad last week, and I went by to see him and his family in this hard time.
As sad as the atmosphere was, people couldn't help but smile when they asked about you. I, of course, had a picture to flash in front of everyone who wanted to see it (and even some who didn't!)
It was a weird experience because I hadn't seen many of these people since I was a kid myself, and here I was showing off a picture of my child.
My friend's mother had this to say: "Just wait until your kid and all the kids she grew up with become adults and start having children...THAT'S weird!"
Don't grow up too fast, babydoll.
- Dad
I was late getting home tonight because I went to a funeral visitation after work. An old childhood friend of mine lost his dad last week, and I went by to see him and his family in this hard time.
As sad as the atmosphere was, people couldn't help but smile when they asked about you. I, of course, had a picture to flash in front of everyone who wanted to see it (and even some who didn't!)
It was a weird experience because I hadn't seen many of these people since I was a kid myself, and here I was showing off a picture of my child.
My friend's mother had this to say: "Just wait until your kid and all the kids she grew up with become adults and start having children...THAT'S weird!"
Don't grow up too fast, babydoll.
- Dad
Monday, November 26, 2007
Day 36 : Dancing Queen
Sadie –
It was hard for me to be away from you and go back to work today after the long weekend we all had together. I called your mom late this morning to check on you two, and near the end of our conversation I could hear you making noise from your crib. I had to wonder if you missed me like I missed you. Your mom said that though she sometimes gets lonely after a full week with me at work, she was excited about having a lot of one-on-one time with you today. She played with you lots and told me that she even got you to dance when she played a silly tune on your playtime mat. I am jealous that I missed that!
- Dad
It was hard for me to be away from you and go back to work today after the long weekend we all had together. I called your mom late this morning to check on you two, and near the end of our conversation I could hear you making noise from your crib. I had to wonder if you missed me like I missed you. Your mom said that though she sometimes gets lonely after a full week with me at work, she was excited about having a lot of one-on-one time with you today. She played with you lots and told me that she even got you to dance when she played a silly tune on your playtime mat. I am jealous that I missed that!
- Dad
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Day 35 : Oh, Sleeper!
Sadie –
You’ve literally slept the day away. You slept through most of church, our trip to Wal-Mart, and a pizza party at Grandma’s. No matter how hard your mom and I have tried to keep you awake, you keep dozing off. And now, it’s almost midnight and I’ve just returned from going to see a band play with your Uncle Joel, and when I poke my head in to check on you, you are quiet and peaceful, but your eyes are wide open!
Later in your life, I’ll expect you to want to stay up late with us grown-ups, but tonight, we all need to sleep. Keep quiet and close your eyes, baby girl!
I love you!
- Dad
You’ve literally slept the day away. You slept through most of church, our trip to Wal-Mart, and a pizza party at Grandma’s. No matter how hard your mom and I have tried to keep you awake, you keep dozing off. And now, it’s almost midnight and I’ve just returned from going to see a band play with your Uncle Joel, and when I poke my head in to check on you, you are quiet and peaceful, but your eyes are wide open!
Later in your life, I’ll expect you to want to stay up late with us grown-ups, but tonight, we all need to sleep. Keep quiet and close your eyes, baby girl!
I love you!
- Dad
Saturday, November 24, 2007
Day 34 : Christmas Cheer
Sadie -
You now live in a very festive residence. Your mom has spent a lot of today pulling boxes out of storage, assembling Christmas trees, and hanging (VERY) over sized stockings.
Christmas is a favorite holiday of ours and we are excited to share it with you. The time will come when we'll tell you the whole story of why we celebrate and we'll induct you into all of our traditions. But for right now, just know that the next month will be filled with lots of lights and love (and most likely, some pretty cheesy movies)!
You are wearing your "Kiss Me, I'm Cute" outfit and you just fell asleep on my shoulder.
I love you more every second!
- Dad
You now live in a very festive residence. Your mom has spent a lot of today pulling boxes out of storage, assembling Christmas trees, and hanging (VERY) over sized stockings.
Christmas is a favorite holiday of ours and we are excited to share it with you. The time will come when we'll tell you the whole story of why we celebrate and we'll induct you into all of our traditions. But for right now, just know that the next month will be filled with lots of lights and love (and most likely, some pretty cheesy movies)!
You are wearing your "Kiss Me, I'm Cute" outfit and you just fell asleep on my shoulder.
I love you more every second!
- Dad
Friday, November 23, 2007
Day 33 : Shop, Drop, & Roll
Sadie -
You, your mom, your Aunt Amy and I braved Black Friday crowds this morning (well, later this morning... we weren't among the crazies who went to Kohls at 4 AM) to help your mom do some post-pregnancy, non-maternity clothes shopping. I put you in a "baby backpack" of sorts (called a "Snuglie"), and you slept soundly for a few hours pressed up against me, listening to my heartbeat. It was really fun to watch people try to sneak a peek at your beautiful, snoozing face! I even talked to a few strangers who were curious about you and wanted to tell me how small and cute you were.
As if that was not enough fun for one day, you had a pediatricians visit this afternoon. You got a shot in the leg and I snuggled with you intensely as you cried out the shock and pain of getting stuck by a needle without warning.
Then, you and I tricked your mom by telling her we were going to Grandma's house for dinner. In actuality, you went to Grandma's house and your mom and I went on our first date since you have been home with us. It was a lot of fun, but your mom missed you so much, that she had to call and check on you after an hour of being away.
Now, after your huge day, you are very tired. Sleep soundly, baby doll. Tomorrow is another fun day in our long weekend!
- Dad
You, your mom, your Aunt Amy and I braved Black Friday crowds this morning (well, later this morning... we weren't among the crazies who went to Kohls at 4 AM) to help your mom do some post-pregnancy, non-maternity clothes shopping. I put you in a "baby backpack" of sorts (called a "Snuglie"), and you slept soundly for a few hours pressed up against me, listening to my heartbeat. It was really fun to watch people try to sneak a peek at your beautiful, snoozing face! I even talked to a few strangers who were curious about you and wanted to tell me how small and cute you were.
As if that was not enough fun for one day, you had a pediatricians visit this afternoon. You got a shot in the leg and I snuggled with you intensely as you cried out the shock and pain of getting stuck by a needle without warning.
Then, you and I tricked your mom by telling her we were going to Grandma's house for dinner. In actuality, you went to Grandma's house and your mom and I went on our first date since you have been home with us. It was a lot of fun, but your mom missed you so much, that she had to call and check on you after an hour of being away.
Now, after your huge day, you are very tired. Sleep soundly, baby doll. Tomorrow is another fun day in our long weekend!
- Dad
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Day 32 : Happy Bird Day
Sadie -
I find it quite appropriate that today is both Thanksgiving and your one month birthday, because when thinking of things I was thankful for today, you and the fact that you are happy and healthy was at the top of the list.
We spent your first major holiday at Grandma and Grandpa's doing what most people do on Thanksgiving - eating! You were even-tempered and well-behaved and even let your cousin Jasmine help feed you a bottle.
Oh... and your mom and I may have had a little festive fun with you when you woke up this morning... Your mom made an Indian headdress out of construction paper and we took a picture of you wearing it. Yeah, I know it was kind of ridiculous, but all of your relatives thought it was pretty funny and incredibly cute when we passed the photo around!
I promise we'll be less irritating as you get older. I hope...
Happy Thanksgiving!
- Dad
I find it quite appropriate that today is both Thanksgiving and your one month birthday, because when thinking of things I was thankful for today, you and the fact that you are happy and healthy was at the top of the list.
We spent your first major holiday at Grandma and Grandpa's doing what most people do on Thanksgiving - eating! You were even-tempered and well-behaved and even let your cousin Jasmine help feed you a bottle.
Oh... and your mom and I may have had a little festive fun with you when you woke up this morning... Your mom made an Indian headdress out of construction paper and we took a picture of you wearing it. Yeah, I know it was kind of ridiculous, but all of your relatives thought it was pretty funny and incredibly cute when we passed the photo around!
I promise we'll be less irritating as you get older. I hope...
Happy Thanksgiving!
- Dad
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Day 31 : Say Cheese
Hey Sadie -
I got to leave work early today because of the holiday tomorrow, so you and your mom and I spent this afternoon running errands together. As usual, you slept for most of our drive time.
Tonight we went to your Grandma E.'s house for dinner. Both of your Great Grandmas were there, too, and everyone wanted a turn to swoon over you. You stayed awake and pleasant for quite sometime, and you even posed while Grandpa took some pictures.
After dinner, Grandma went to her closet upstairs and pulled out a few books full of pictures from when I was a baby. It was funny to look at the physical similarities that you and I had when I was your age. I am sorry you don't look more like your mom!
I am so excited to have a long weekend to spend with you!
- Dad
I got to leave work early today because of the holiday tomorrow, so you and your mom and I spent this afternoon running errands together. As usual, you slept for most of our drive time.
Tonight we went to your Grandma E.'s house for dinner. Both of your Great Grandmas were there, too, and everyone wanted a turn to swoon over you. You stayed awake and pleasant for quite sometime, and you even posed while Grandpa took some pictures.
After dinner, Grandma went to her closet upstairs and pulled out a few books full of pictures from when I was a baby. It was funny to look at the physical similarities that you and I had when I was your age. I am sorry you don't look more like your mom!
I am so excited to have a long weekend to spend with you!
- Dad
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Day 30 : Sing
Sades -
I broke out my guitar tonight and sang some tunes for you. You'll find out soon enough that this is something I like to do quite often. Of course, I sang you a Keith Urban song and a song of my own I am working on, but you didn't seem satisfied until I started in to a medley version of "Oh Girl," an old Chi-Lites song that I've found myself humming to you quite a bit when I am changing your diaper. The lyrics go,
"Oh, girl/ I'd be in trouble if you left me now/ 'Cause I don't know where to look for love/ I just don't know how"
Right now you are snoozing at my feet and I can't believe how much I love you.
- Dad
I broke out my guitar tonight and sang some tunes for you. You'll find out soon enough that this is something I like to do quite often. Of course, I sang you a Keith Urban song and a song of my own I am working on, but you didn't seem satisfied until I started in to a medley version of "Oh Girl," an old Chi-Lites song that I've found myself humming to you quite a bit when I am changing your diaper. The lyrics go,
"Oh, girl/ I'd be in trouble if you left me now/ 'Cause I don't know where to look for love/ I just don't know how"
Right now you are snoozing at my feet and I can't believe how much I love you.
- Dad
Monday, November 19, 2007
Day 29 : Story Time
Sadie -
Your "Uncle" Trevor and "Aunt" Laura sent you a present in the mail today. They heard that I couldn't remember the end of the story of Goldilocks and the 3 Bears, so they sent you the book. I'll admit that I have already turned to the last few pages to see what exactly I had forgotten about the story, and now I think I could properly relay it to you by memory. But, of course, I won't need to since we now have the book!
I cuddled with you a lot this evening and teased you quite a bit, too. I'll warn you now that I do like to make a lot of jokes - just ask your mom! The upside of this is that by the time you start school you should have a pretty sharp wit and a reasonably thick skin!
You are getting prettier and better at expressing yourself every day.
Loving you is such a fun adventure.
- Dad
Your "Uncle" Trevor and "Aunt" Laura sent you a present in the mail today. They heard that I couldn't remember the end of the story of Goldilocks and the 3 Bears, so they sent you the book. I'll admit that I have already turned to the last few pages to see what exactly I had forgotten about the story, and now I think I could properly relay it to you by memory. But, of course, I won't need to since we now have the book!
I cuddled with you a lot this evening and teased you quite a bit, too. I'll warn you now that I do like to make a lot of jokes - just ask your mom! The upside of this is that by the time you start school you should have a pretty sharp wit and a reasonably thick skin!
You are getting prettier and better at expressing yourself every day.
Loving you is such a fun adventure.
- Dad
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Day 28 : Weekend Warrior
Sadie-
You have had such a big weekend. Yesterday was your first big road trip and today was your first trip to church, your first shopping extravaganza at the commercial blackhole we call "Wal-Mart," and it was the first time your "Uncle" Ben and "Aunt" Danielle got to see you since you came home from the hospital.
You are one tired little lady now!
I love you so much. I was so proud walking through Wal-Mart today, pushing the cart with your seat inside. I was just waiting for people to ask about you, to try to sneak a peek at your little head in your little hat. And when they did, I smiled back and I am sure they could see how happy you make me.
Get some rest. It has been a crazy few days, and the next week will probably be just as intense. I only have to work two and a half days this week, and I am so excited that I can spend the rest of them with you celebrating a special day called "Thanksgiving"!
- Dad
You have had such a big weekend. Yesterday was your first big road trip and today was your first trip to church, your first shopping extravaganza at the commercial blackhole we call "Wal-Mart," and it was the first time your "Uncle" Ben and "Aunt" Danielle got to see you since you came home from the hospital.
You are one tired little lady now!
I love you so much. I was so proud walking through Wal-Mart today, pushing the cart with your seat inside. I was just waiting for people to ask about you, to try to sneak a peek at your little head in your little hat. And when they did, I smiled back and I am sure they could see how happy you make me.
Get some rest. It has been a crazy few days, and the next week will probably be just as intense. I only have to work two and a half days this week, and I am so excited that I can spend the rest of them with you celebrating a special day called "Thanksgiving"!
- Dad
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Day 27 : Road Trip
Sadie Rose -
Congrats on completing your first family road trip with us!
Today, you, your mom and I all went to Cincinnati, Ohio (just 90 minutes up the road) to see your "Uncles" Tim and Jeff, and to stop by your Great Grandma E.'s house to meet her and my cousin Sarah.
You were well-behaved and relaxed for most of the day as we ate at a restaurant called "The Pub" and drove all over the city. You seem to really like car rides and new places. That is good, because your mom and I like car rides and new places, as well and are excited to take you to many.
And guess what! Your "Uncle" Jeff held you today and revealed that your were the first baby he has ever had in his arms! He is 28-years-old and has never held a infant until you! He seemed to really think you were neat.
It was fun to take you out in public. Your mom keeps talking about how much she likes it when people who don't know us see you. A complete stranger leaned over at The Pub this afternoon and told us how beautiful she thought you were. No one can hide how cute they think you are!
You ARE the cutest!
- Dad
Congrats on completing your first family road trip with us!
Today, you, your mom and I all went to Cincinnati, Ohio (just 90 minutes up the road) to see your "Uncles" Tim and Jeff, and to stop by your Great Grandma E.'s house to meet her and my cousin Sarah.
You were well-behaved and relaxed for most of the day as we ate at a restaurant called "The Pub" and drove all over the city. You seem to really like car rides and new places. That is good, because your mom and I like car rides and new places, as well and are excited to take you to many.
And guess what! Your "Uncle" Jeff held you today and revealed that your were the first baby he has ever had in his arms! He is 28-years-old and has never held a infant until you! He seemed to really think you were neat.
It was fun to take you out in public. Your mom keeps talking about how much she likes it when people who don't know us see you. A complete stranger leaned over at The Pub this afternoon and told us how beautiful she thought you were. No one can hide how cute they think you are!
You ARE the cutest!
- Dad
Friday, November 16, 2007
Day 26 : Shopping
Sadie -
You went on your first shopping adventure today, albeit brief. You, your mom and I ran into Target to grab some more sleep ware for you. You snoozed through most of it, as your carrier rocked to the rhythm of the cart, but it was so fun to have you out of the house for a few minutes.
We also celebrated your Grandpa E.'s birthday this evening with a big family dinner at his house. Everyone thought you looked especially adorable in your special hat and skirt outfit you got from your Great Aunt Janie. When it came time for Gramps to open presents, I held you up and said that you were his present from us and that the Dylan CD we gave him was from you. I am sure he was impressed by your musical tastes.
Tomorrow you get to meet more of your relatives and maybe even your cool "Uncle" Jeff!
It will be fun!
- Dad
You went on your first shopping adventure today, albeit brief. You, your mom and I ran into Target to grab some more sleep ware for you. You snoozed through most of it, as your carrier rocked to the rhythm of the cart, but it was so fun to have you out of the house for a few minutes.
We also celebrated your Grandpa E.'s birthday this evening with a big family dinner at his house. Everyone thought you looked especially adorable in your special hat and skirt outfit you got from your Great Aunt Janie. When it came time for Gramps to open presents, I held you up and said that you were his present from us and that the Dylan CD we gave him was from you. I am sure he was impressed by your musical tastes.
Tomorrow you get to meet more of your relatives and maybe even your cool "Uncle" Jeff!
It will be fun!
- Dad
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Day 25 : BodyTalk
Hey Sadie -
I read something a few months before you were born that said that once you entered this world I would suddenly start talking about your poop, pee, and snot. I thought this wouldn't happen - but I was wrong!
You are still fighting this cold and it is becoming a bit of an obsession for me to monitor your progress. I carefully calculate how much snot I pull out of your nose before feeding times and I cringe every time I see the crust around your eyelids after a long sleep.
I never thought I'd be one of those dads who says his daughter's diapering and drool doesn't gross him out, but that is just what I've become. Maybe I am okay with it just because I am so thankful to have you home...
I promise that when the time comes I'll back off your bowel movements and nasal drips and give you the privacy you need!
I love you more than you can comprehend.
- Dad
I read something a few months before you were born that said that once you entered this world I would suddenly start talking about your poop, pee, and snot. I thought this wouldn't happen - but I was wrong!
You are still fighting this cold and it is becoming a bit of an obsession for me to monitor your progress. I carefully calculate how much snot I pull out of your nose before feeding times and I cringe every time I see the crust around your eyelids after a long sleep.
I never thought I'd be one of those dads who says his daughter's diapering and drool doesn't gross him out, but that is just what I've become. Maybe I am okay with it just because I am so thankful to have you home...
I promise that when the time comes I'll back off your bowel movements and nasal drips and give you the privacy you need!
I love you more than you can comprehend.
- Dad
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Day 24 : Super Sadie
Sadie -
You look a little like a superhero when we put your hooded bath towel on you. You still don't like the whole bathing process much yet, but I am sure that will come in time. As you whimpered during your nighttime routine this evening, your mom turned to me and wistfully asked, "Can you believe that someday fairly soon we are probably going to have trouble getting her OUT of the bathtub, instead of into it?"
I am excited about those days - not just for the fact that the whole bathing process might be easier, but that after you take a bath, I'll be able to read your stories before you nod off to sleep.
Much love!
- Dad
You look a little like a superhero when we put your hooded bath towel on you. You still don't like the whole bathing process much yet, but I am sure that will come in time. As you whimpered during your nighttime routine this evening, your mom turned to me and wistfully asked, "Can you believe that someday fairly soon we are probably going to have trouble getting her OUT of the bathtub, instead of into it?"
I am excited about those days - not just for the fact that the whole bathing process might be easier, but that after you take a bath, I'll be able to read your stories before you nod off to sleep.
Much love!
- Dad
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Day 23 : 1000 Words
Sadie -
There is a saying that implies that photos are worth more than verbal communication. Thus, I took a picture of you on my phone a few days ago and have been using it to answer the question, "How is the baby?" It saves me from having to say "beautiful," "wonderful," and "gorgeous" over and over. I just shove my phone at people.
You are still fighting a battle with a nasty cold today, and the rest of the world seemed to be affected by it. It was nasty and rainy from dawn to dark, making my drive to work irritatingly slow and nerve-wracking. I hope tomorrow is better for everybody - but especially you!
And by the way - I've noticed something odd when I feed you. Formula smells a lot like the inside of a McDonalds restaurant. This has led me to form a hypothesis that McDonalds purposely perpetuates this odor to lure children into their eateries at an extremely young age. How else do you explain the fact that ALL American children LOVE that place? You can't help it...
Your my baby girl!
- Dad
There is a saying that implies that photos are worth more than verbal communication. Thus, I took a picture of you on my phone a few days ago and have been using it to answer the question, "How is the baby?" It saves me from having to say "beautiful," "wonderful," and "gorgeous" over and over. I just shove my phone at people.
You are still fighting a battle with a nasty cold today, and the rest of the world seemed to be affected by it. It was nasty and rainy from dawn to dark, making my drive to work irritatingly slow and nerve-wracking. I hope tomorrow is better for everybody - but especially you!
And by the way - I've noticed something odd when I feed you. Formula smells a lot like the inside of a McDonalds restaurant. This has led me to form a hypothesis that McDonalds purposely perpetuates this odor to lure children into their eateries at an extremely young age. How else do you explain the fact that ALL American children LOVE that place? You can't help it...
Your my baby girl!
- Dad
Monday, November 12, 2007
Day 22 : Country Tis of Thee
Sadie –
You sure are getting initiated in to the less-than-pleasant aspects of life early! Your first two weeks were spent at the hospital; this past weekend you struggled with annoying gas pains; and now you have a cold.
This is frustrating because your mom and I spent all weekend trying to keep you from getting a cold. We kept you in the house, made sure things were sanitized – but (as more experienced parents know) we can’t protect you from everything. So you’ve spent the last 24 hours sneezing and getting frustrated at your own sniffle-y nose.
When I got home from work, your mom ran out to the store and I fed you a bottle on the couch as I sang along to a Keith Urban concert special on TV. Your mom really doesn’t like Keith Urban, so I am trying to make sure I expose you to him at an early age so we can make it two-against-one. You didn’t seem too impressed with him either - but I am going to blame that on the cold!
Get well soon! We hate seeing our little girl not feeling good…
- Dad
You sure are getting initiated in to the less-than-pleasant aspects of life early! Your first two weeks were spent at the hospital; this past weekend you struggled with annoying gas pains; and now you have a cold.
This is frustrating because your mom and I spent all weekend trying to keep you from getting a cold. We kept you in the house, made sure things were sanitized – but (as more experienced parents know) we can’t protect you from everything. So you’ve spent the last 24 hours sneezing and getting frustrated at your own sniffle-y nose.
When I got home from work, your mom ran out to the store and I fed you a bottle on the couch as I sang along to a Keith Urban concert special on TV. Your mom really doesn’t like Keith Urban, so I am trying to make sure I expose you to him at an early age so we can make it two-against-one. You didn’t seem too impressed with him either - but I am going to blame that on the cold!
Get well soon! We hate seeing our little girl not feeling good…
- Dad
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Day 21 : (un)Natural Gas
Sadie -
It seems you don't like Chinese food.
This is a shame - partly because your mom and I LOVE Chinese food - but also, because you have spent the last 24 hours with some seemingly awful gas. You started getting quite fussy and hard to calm Saturday morning and the struggle continued through the early part of today. Your mom and I sat down and tried to think what might be causing you all of this irritation, when we realized that we'd been eating Chinese leftovers ever since Friday night. We've since stopped and have only fed you formula for your last two feedings and you've been sleeping like an angel.
The upside to all of your irritation? We got some tremendous snuggling in today! You were so upset because of your gassy stomach this morning, that after trying everything else, I resorted to wrapping you up in your sleep sack, laying you on my chest, and wrapping the both of us in covers.
You fell asleep within moments and I did, too. Your mom was a little jealous.
Sleep soundly and we'll lay off the ethnic food for awhile!
Love ya!
- Dad
It seems you don't like Chinese food.
This is a shame - partly because your mom and I LOVE Chinese food - but also, because you have spent the last 24 hours with some seemingly awful gas. You started getting quite fussy and hard to calm Saturday morning and the struggle continued through the early part of today. Your mom and I sat down and tried to think what might be causing you all of this irritation, when we realized that we'd been eating Chinese leftovers ever since Friday night. We've since stopped and have only fed you formula for your last two feedings and you've been sleeping like an angel.
The upside to all of your irritation? We got some tremendous snuggling in today! You were so upset because of your gassy stomach this morning, that after trying everything else, I resorted to wrapping you up in your sleep sack, laying you on my chest, and wrapping the both of us in covers.
You fell asleep within moments and I did, too. Your mom was a little jealous.
Sleep soundly and we'll lay off the ethnic food for awhile!
Love ya!
- Dad
Saturday, November 10, 2007
Day 20 : Chin Up
Sadie -
You got to meet your Great Grandma Gee tonight. She was at the hospital briefly on the day you were born, but since then, she hasn't gotten a chance to truly see you. So this afternoon. your mom and I took you over to her house for awhile.
Your Great Grandma was quick to say that you look like me - and she had evidence to back it up. In the middle of our visit, she left the room for a moment, only to return clutching an old photograph. She handed it to me and asked me to look it over.
I glanced at a picture of a chubby-cheeked baby who had an unmistakable resemblance to you (especially in the cheeks and chin). I studied the picture for a moment and realized that the lady holding the chubby-cheeked baby in the photo was a much younger version of your Great Grandma. That chubby-cheeked baby was ME!
"Now do you see why I say she looks like you?" your Great Grandma asked.
Yes, now I do.
- Dad
You got to meet your Great Grandma Gee tonight. She was at the hospital briefly on the day you were born, but since then, she hasn't gotten a chance to truly see you. So this afternoon. your mom and I took you over to her house for awhile.
Your Great Grandma was quick to say that you look like me - and she had evidence to back it up. In the middle of our visit, she left the room for a moment, only to return clutching an old photograph. She handed it to me and asked me to look it over.
I glanced at a picture of a chubby-cheeked baby who had an unmistakable resemblance to you (especially in the cheeks and chin). I studied the picture for a moment and realized that the lady holding the chubby-cheeked baby in the photo was a much younger version of your Great Grandma. That chubby-cheeked baby was ME!
"Now do you see why I say she looks like you?" your Great Grandma asked.
Yes, now I do.
- Dad
Friday, November 9, 2007
Day 19 : Rewards
Sadie -
You'll learn quickly that I am not much on negativity.
One of my biggest pet peeves since my mom and I decided to have you as been how people who are already parents like to try to "warn" us or give us really generic, stereo-typical, and un-helpful advice.
A manager at my office has said to me (no less than three times in the past few weeks), "You'll never sleep soundly or see a movie again."
This says four things to me: 1) This lady is either very forgetful or must think she is really funny (because she KEEPS repeating herself); 2) This lady has no idea how soundly I sleep; 3) This lady has no idea how many movies I watch and how seriously I take that habit; 4) This lady obviously does not know how intense the Eichenberger decision making process is.
It is not like your mom and I are unwed, teenage parents. You aren't a product of a one night stand. Before you were even conceived, your mom read (and this is NOT an exaggeration!) at least ten large books on the process of pregnancy and the initial challenges of parenthood. We have partaken in several formal classes and been active observers in multiple case studies on early parenthood (Thanks Ms. Ivy and Mr. Ethan!). In short - we knew (and continue to know) what we were/are getting into.
I am on this soapbox for two reasons:
1) To let you know how desired you were, are, and continue to be. You were not a mistake. You were not a surprise. You are a prayer answered and a dream realized.
2) To make you understand how refreshing my encounter with Mr. Murphy was tonight.
Mr. Murphy works in my company. I don't know him well, but I've never thought much of him. He is kind of quiet and always seems a little distracted. We don't seem to have much in common, but we both found ourselves waiting on the same elevator at quitting time today. We made small talk about the fact that the weekend was finally here and he asked if I had big plans.
"I'll be hanging out with my daughter," I beamed. I said this in spite of the fact that I was sure his response would contain some comment about how soon I won't want to be around you, or I'll wish I could just sleep more soundly. But he surprised me.
"You have so much to look forward to," he said. "It is great now, and it just keeps getting greater. Think," he continued,"in a year from now, you'll be excited because she'll be having a birthday, and the holidays will be coming..." He seemed to almost be getting misty-eyed himself. "Nothing beats going home at night, looking in your kids face, and realizing all of the crap you've been worried about all day doesn't seem to matter." With this comment, Mr. Murphy said goodnight, and walked across the street to his car.
I'd like to thank Mr. Murphy for being the first current parent (with the exception of your "Uncle" Shack and "Aunt" Holly) to pay me the courtesy of realizing I understand the challenge I have undertaken, and instead of dwelling on what I have "given up, spelling out the reward I am about to receive.
And Sadie, you are SUCH a reward.
- Dad
You'll learn quickly that I am not much on negativity.
One of my biggest pet peeves since my mom and I decided to have you as been how people who are already parents like to try to "warn" us or give us really generic, stereo-typical, and un-helpful advice.
A manager at my office has said to me (no less than three times in the past few weeks), "You'll never sleep soundly or see a movie again."
This says four things to me: 1) This lady is either very forgetful or must think she is really funny (because she KEEPS repeating herself); 2) This lady has no idea how soundly I sleep; 3) This lady has no idea how many movies I watch and how seriously I take that habit; 4) This lady obviously does not know how intense the Eichenberger decision making process is.
It is not like your mom and I are unwed, teenage parents. You aren't a product of a one night stand. Before you were even conceived, your mom read (and this is NOT an exaggeration!) at least ten large books on the process of pregnancy and the initial challenges of parenthood. We have partaken in several formal classes and been active observers in multiple case studies on early parenthood (Thanks Ms. Ivy and Mr. Ethan!). In short - we knew (and continue to know) what we were/are getting into.
I am on this soapbox for two reasons:
1) To let you know how desired you were, are, and continue to be. You were not a mistake. You were not a surprise. You are a prayer answered and a dream realized.
2) To make you understand how refreshing my encounter with Mr. Murphy was tonight.
Mr. Murphy works in my company. I don't know him well, but I've never thought much of him. He is kind of quiet and always seems a little distracted. We don't seem to have much in common, but we both found ourselves waiting on the same elevator at quitting time today. We made small talk about the fact that the weekend was finally here and he asked if I had big plans.
"I'll be hanging out with my daughter," I beamed. I said this in spite of the fact that I was sure his response would contain some comment about how soon I won't want to be around you, or I'll wish I could just sleep more soundly. But he surprised me.
"You have so much to look forward to," he said. "It is great now, and it just keeps getting greater. Think," he continued,"in a year from now, you'll be excited because she'll be having a birthday, and the holidays will be coming..." He seemed to almost be getting misty-eyed himself. "Nothing beats going home at night, looking in your kids face, and realizing all of the crap you've been worried about all day doesn't seem to matter." With this comment, Mr. Murphy said goodnight, and walked across the street to his car.
I'd like to thank Mr. Murphy for being the first current parent (with the exception of your "Uncle" Shack and "Aunt" Holly) to pay me the courtesy of realizing I understand the challenge I have undertaken, and instead of dwelling on what I have "given up, spelling out the reward I am about to receive.
And Sadie, you are SUCH a reward.
- Dad
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Day 18 : Security
Sadie -
You have been causing me to think a lot recently about the concept of security.
As you get older, you'll hear much fuss made about the idea of "freedom":
"Freedom of speech"; "Freedom of expression"; "Freedom to gather and protest";
When you are a teenager, you are liable to want to talk about the "freedom to date" and the "freedom of curfews."
As Americans and as humans, we are very much concerned about our personal ability to control ourselves and the things around us - that is really what freedom is. But right now, you are much more concerned about security.
You were crying earlier and seemed upset. I picked you up and wrapped my hands and forearms around your arms and legs, restricting your movement. To an adult, such treatment would warrant a physical fight, but to you it was comforting.
I held you tightly as your body relaxed in my grip and I thought about how proud I am to be able to offer you such security and comfort now - and how scared I am that I won't always be able to do so.
Sleep tight in my arms, baby girl.
- Dad
You have been causing me to think a lot recently about the concept of security.
As you get older, you'll hear much fuss made about the idea of "freedom":
"Freedom of speech"; "Freedom of expression"; "Freedom to gather and protest";
When you are a teenager, you are liable to want to talk about the "freedom to date" and the "freedom of curfews."
As Americans and as humans, we are very much concerned about our personal ability to control ourselves and the things around us - that is really what freedom is. But right now, you are much more concerned about security.
You were crying earlier and seemed upset. I picked you up and wrapped my hands and forearms around your arms and legs, restricting your movement. To an adult, such treatment would warrant a physical fight, but to you it was comforting.
I held you tightly as your body relaxed in my grip and I thought about how proud I am to be able to offer you such security and comfort now - and how scared I am that I won't always be able to do so.
Sleep tight in my arms, baby girl.
- Dad
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Day 17 : Picture Perfect
S.R. -
While you were struggling with me over your sponge bath last night, I made sure your mom snapped a few pictures on my phone. Sure, it might sound a little cruel, but how else was I going to be able to show a bunch of relative strangers at work today how cute you are. The security guard in my office building says that she can already tell you are going to look like me. Don't worry - that is just something people say when they have random baby photos shoved in their face without warning.
You spent some of this afternoon over at your Aunt Amy's house with mom, Amy and cousin Jasmine. Your mom says she has never seen your cousin be so concerned and behaved on someone else's behalf. In fact, while you were sleeping, she kept telling your Uncle Steve to "shhhh!" so he wouldn't wake you. I think you and Jasmine will be good friends!
Our friend Merrin came by before dinner and held you for the first time. She couldn't quit talking about how cute you are, and she brought you a bag full of goodies - socks, books and a much-needed extra crib sheet.
I just fed you a bottle and put you down for the night. Sleep well, and I'll come cuddle with you before I leave for work in the morning. I can't wait for the weekend to get here so I can spend all day with you!
Love for always.
- Dad
While you were struggling with me over your sponge bath last night, I made sure your mom snapped a few pictures on my phone. Sure, it might sound a little cruel, but how else was I going to be able to show a bunch of relative strangers at work today how cute you are. The security guard in my office building says that she can already tell you are going to look like me. Don't worry - that is just something people say when they have random baby photos shoved in their face without warning.
You spent some of this afternoon over at your Aunt Amy's house with mom, Amy and cousin Jasmine. Your mom says she has never seen your cousin be so concerned and behaved on someone else's behalf. In fact, while you were sleeping, she kept telling your Uncle Steve to "shhhh!" so he wouldn't wake you. I think you and Jasmine will be good friends!
Our friend Merrin came by before dinner and held you for the first time. She couldn't quit talking about how cute you are, and she brought you a bag full of goodies - socks, books and a much-needed extra crib sheet.
I just fed you a bottle and put you down for the night. Sleep well, and I'll come cuddle with you before I leave for work in the morning. I can't wait for the weekend to get here so I can spend all day with you!
Love for always.
- Dad
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
Day 16 : Naked
Sadie -
So there is one thing I've learned in the last 24 hours. You hate being cold.
I changed your diaper at 3 AM last night and you waited until I had it off and then peed right through your sleeper and your blanket.
I changed your diaper tonight and you waited until I had it all the way off and then you pooed all over the changing table.
Just a few minutes ago, your mom and I gave you a sponge bath and you quite loudly made it known that you were not a fan of the process.
But none of that makes me angry. I don't like being cold either, and left to my own devices, my first reaction might be to use the bathroom all over whoever was making me cold, too.
When I got home from work, your mom ran to Target to get you a special sleeping sack to keep you warm tonight. The nurses in the hospital swaddled you so much, you have trouble knowing what to do with your arms when you are not wrapped up, which makes sleeping a little difficult. So this garment should help with all that. You are wrapped in it and laying on my lap right now, in fact.
And you just passed a very loud amount of gas...
I don't think the party is over yet...
- Dad
So there is one thing I've learned in the last 24 hours. You hate being cold.
I changed your diaper at 3 AM last night and you waited until I had it off and then peed right through your sleeper and your blanket.
I changed your diaper tonight and you waited until I had it all the way off and then you pooed all over the changing table.
Just a few minutes ago, your mom and I gave you a sponge bath and you quite loudly made it known that you were not a fan of the process.
But none of that makes me angry. I don't like being cold either, and left to my own devices, my first reaction might be to use the bathroom all over whoever was making me cold, too.
When I got home from work, your mom ran to Target to get you a special sleeping sack to keep you warm tonight. The nurses in the hospital swaddled you so much, you have trouble knowing what to do with your arms when you are not wrapped up, which makes sleeping a little difficult. So this garment should help with all that. You are wrapped in it and laying on my lap right now, in fact.
And you just passed a very loud amount of gas...
I don't think the party is over yet...
- Dad
Monday, November 5, 2007
Day 15 : House and Home
Sadie -
Welcome home! We celebrated your two-week birthday today by packing up your things at the hospital nursery, loading you into the back of the Vue, and bringing you to the apartment in the suburbs of Louisville, Kentucky where you now lay fast asleep just a few dozen feet from where I am typing this.
Today has been a great day - and a big day - for all of us.
Your mom and I have barely been able to contain our excitement about your arrival home. I dropped you and your mom off at the apartment at 1:30 this afternoon, and within five minutes, I'd text messaged five or six of your "Aunts" and "Uncles" all around the country to start spreading the good news. Your mom sent out an email about your change of location, too, and people all over the place celebrated by sending congratulations, exultation and prayers out.
Of course, this evening was filled by visits from your Eichenberger Grandparents and your Aunt Amy, Uncle Steve, and Cousin Jasmine. Jasmine was so concerned (in her own 3-year-old way)every time you cried, that she would try to give you a stuffed animal or show you her new puppet to try to calm you down.
After everyone else left, you and your mom and I lounged on the couch and watched some TV. You dozed off asleep in my arms and I soon put you in your crib, where you are currently snoozing. While I held you tonight, your mom kept asking me if I needed pillows to prop you on. I told her "no." I am sure that later I will have tired arms and will want support, but right now I am too busy treasuring the joy of holding you close to worry about sore body.
Sleep soundly and peacefully, and - once again -
WELCOME HOME!
-Dad
Welcome home! We celebrated your two-week birthday today by packing up your things at the hospital nursery, loading you into the back of the Vue, and bringing you to the apartment in the suburbs of Louisville, Kentucky where you now lay fast asleep just a few dozen feet from where I am typing this.
Today has been a great day - and a big day - for all of us.
Your mom and I have barely been able to contain our excitement about your arrival home. I dropped you and your mom off at the apartment at 1:30 this afternoon, and within five minutes, I'd text messaged five or six of your "Aunts" and "Uncles" all around the country to start spreading the good news. Your mom sent out an email about your change of location, too, and people all over the place celebrated by sending congratulations, exultation and prayers out.
Of course, this evening was filled by visits from your Eichenberger Grandparents and your Aunt Amy, Uncle Steve, and Cousin Jasmine. Jasmine was so concerned (in her own 3-year-old way)every time you cried, that she would try to give you a stuffed animal or show you her new puppet to try to calm you down.
After everyone else left, you and your mom and I lounged on the couch and watched some TV. You dozed off asleep in my arms and I soon put you in your crib, where you are currently snoozing. While I held you tonight, your mom kept asking me if I needed pillows to prop you on. I told her "no." I am sure that later I will have tired arms and will want support, but right now I am too busy treasuring the joy of holding you close to worry about sore body.
Sleep soundly and peacefully, and - once again -
WELCOME HOME!
-Dad
Sunday, November 4, 2007
Day 14 : Almost Home
Sadie -
Today was your original due date!
Your mom and I took you to a private room at the nursery today and spent some quality time with you while you were wide awake. You ate and then I held you close for awhile and told you about the cool room and good times that await you once you finally get to come home with us.
The nurses say that you are doing well enough to probably leave the hospital tomorrow. Your mom said that news made her day and completely changed her mood. When we got back to our house, we spent a lot of time cleaning in anticipation for you to arrive. Your mom organized some of the new things you've been given in your nursery and I vacuumed. Your Uncle Joel and I also went to get some maintenance done on our cars. We have to make sure everything is ready for you - even our autos.
Grandma and Grandpa E. came to visit you as well today. They said you were sleepy while they were there, but that didn't keep them from taking lots of pictures.
Is it silly that I want to throw a party to celebrate your arrival at home? I won't - it would not be productive or beneficial to your health on many levels. But at least know that the thought and want is there. I am pretty sure your mom, your Grandma and your Aunt Amy feel the same way.
It is funny to think that these last few weeks will one day only be an interesting footnote in your biography. The stories about your first few weeks in the hospital will be like battle scars you can wear to differentiate yourself. But right now, these first few weeks have BEEN your life. I can't wait for you to find out how good life away from the hospital will be!
Tomorrow, tomorrow - you come home tomorrow!
- Dad
Today was your original due date!
Your mom and I took you to a private room at the nursery today and spent some quality time with you while you were wide awake. You ate and then I held you close for awhile and told you about the cool room and good times that await you once you finally get to come home with us.
The nurses say that you are doing well enough to probably leave the hospital tomorrow. Your mom said that news made her day and completely changed her mood. When we got back to our house, we spent a lot of time cleaning in anticipation for you to arrive. Your mom organized some of the new things you've been given in your nursery and I vacuumed. Your Uncle Joel and I also went to get some maintenance done on our cars. We have to make sure everything is ready for you - even our autos.
Grandma and Grandpa E. came to visit you as well today. They said you were sleepy while they were there, but that didn't keep them from taking lots of pictures.
Is it silly that I want to throw a party to celebrate your arrival at home? I won't - it would not be productive or beneficial to your health on many levels. But at least know that the thought and want is there. I am pretty sure your mom, your Grandma and your Aunt Amy feel the same way.
It is funny to think that these last few weeks will one day only be an interesting footnote in your biography. The stories about your first few weeks in the hospital will be like battle scars you can wear to differentiate yourself. But right now, these first few weeks have BEEN your life. I can't wait for you to find out how good life away from the hospital will be!
Tomorrow, tomorrow - you come home tomorrow!
- Dad
Saturday, November 3, 2007
Day 13 : Weight Watchers
Sadie -
Your "Uncle" Tim came to see you today. The first thing he said when he saw you wrapped up in a blanket, lying in your crib at the hospital:
"Whoa... There's an Eichenberger!" (This means you look kind of like me - Sorry!)
The doctors say you'll have to wait another few days to come home. You aren't losing weight, but you aren't gaining it either, and the doctors want to make sure you are 100% before you leave the hospital. Your mom and I understand and agree with their professional reasoning, but that doesn't keep us from being really disappointed that you won't be home with us tomorrow.
Your "Uncle" Tim, "Uncle" Ben, and I went to a concert tonight to see a guy named Josh Ritter play music. It was really fun. I wonder sometimes what kind of music you will like when you are older. I hope my musical tastes will rub off on you at least a little. Is that silly or just selfish?
Eat good tonight and tomorrow and hopefully we can all be together on Monday!
I love you soooo much!
- Dad
Your "Uncle" Tim came to see you today. The first thing he said when he saw you wrapped up in a blanket, lying in your crib at the hospital:
"Whoa... There's an Eichenberger!" (This means you look kind of like me - Sorry!)
The doctors say you'll have to wait another few days to come home. You aren't losing weight, but you aren't gaining it either, and the doctors want to make sure you are 100% before you leave the hospital. Your mom and I understand and agree with their professional reasoning, but that doesn't keep us from being really disappointed that you won't be home with us tomorrow.
Your "Uncle" Tim, "Uncle" Ben, and I went to a concert tonight to see a guy named Josh Ritter play music. It was really fun. I wonder sometimes what kind of music you will like when you are older. I hope my musical tastes will rub off on you at least a little. Is that silly or just selfish?
Eat good tonight and tomorrow and hopefully we can all be together on Monday!
I love you soooo much!
- Dad
Friday, November 2, 2007
Day 12 : Baby Pictures
Sadie -
Today at work, my office mates and I took part in a company lunch where we played a game involving baby pictures. Everyone brought a picture of themselves from when they were just a kid, and all the photos were put on a board and numbered. Then, everyone got a slip of paper and tried to match each baby picture with the co-worker to whom it belonged.
When I first heard we were playing this game, I thought it would be very easy. I still look very much the same as the picture that was taken on my first day of kindergarten. And there were plenty of pictures that obviously belonged to certain people. This guy I work with named Jordan still has the exact same poofy hair cut that he had when he was in elementary school. But there were also some photos that showed a child who looked nothing like the person who brought the picture does today.
This whole silly charade got me thinking about you. I am so excited to see what you look like as the days progress. Your mom mentioned tonight that she thinks you already look quite a bit different from how you looked when you first entered the world.
You were sleeping when I visited you today. So I picked you up, held you close, and studied the intricacies of your face. Will you always have chubby cheeks? Will your hair and eyes change color? Will you always yawn in such an over-dramatic and adorable way?
I am excited about living to find out all the answers to all of those questions.
The nurses say you are continuing to improve. You even ate directly from mom today! Good job! The prediction from the doctor is that you will be home with us no later than Tuesday - and maybe even by Sunday!
I can't wait!
- Dad
Today at work, my office mates and I took part in a company lunch where we played a game involving baby pictures. Everyone brought a picture of themselves from when they were just a kid, and all the photos were put on a board and numbered. Then, everyone got a slip of paper and tried to match each baby picture with the co-worker to whom it belonged.
When I first heard we were playing this game, I thought it would be very easy. I still look very much the same as the picture that was taken on my first day of kindergarten. And there were plenty of pictures that obviously belonged to certain people. This guy I work with named Jordan still has the exact same poofy hair cut that he had when he was in elementary school. But there were also some photos that showed a child who looked nothing like the person who brought the picture does today.
This whole silly charade got me thinking about you. I am so excited to see what you look like as the days progress. Your mom mentioned tonight that she thinks you already look quite a bit different from how you looked when you first entered the world.
You were sleeping when I visited you today. So I picked you up, held you close, and studied the intricacies of your face. Will you always have chubby cheeks? Will your hair and eyes change color? Will you always yawn in such an over-dramatic and adorable way?
I am excited about living to find out all the answers to all of those questions.
The nurses say you are continuing to improve. You even ate directly from mom today! Good job! The prediction from the doctor is that you will be home with us no later than Tuesday - and maybe even by Sunday!
I can't wait!
- Dad
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Day 11 : Magic Hands
Sadie -
I told you that yesterday was a holiday called Halloween that lots of people celebrate. Today is a holiday that only me and your mom take part in. It was five years ago today that your mom and I first went out on a date. We got burgers at a little dive called Hugo's. Neither of us knew if the other person liked them. I was really nervous. But later in the evening, we saw one of your mom's friends who let it slip that your mom thought I was pretty cool. The rest, as they say, is sweet history! Two-and-a-half years after that first date, mom and I got married. And two-and-a-half years after that - you were born! We evidently like to divide our life into two-and-a-half year segments. I asked your mom today if she thought you'd have a brother or sister in another two-and-a-half years. We both decided we can only think about you right now!
I came to see you in the middle of the afternoon today. While your mom talked to a nurse, I changed your diaper and your clothes, and then fed you a bottle. You ate the whole thing really fast. Your mom and the nurses were really impressed and surprised. You hadn't eaten that cooperatively with anyone before. I have been bragging ever since about how I have the magic touch. Your mom is afraid you might already be a "daddy's girl." I secretly hope she is right.
If you keep eating like you did today, you might get to come home this weekend. Your mom and I are so excited about that prospect, we can hardly think about anything else. We did find time this evening, though, to celebrate our dating anniversary and go see a special sneak preview of a new movie called "August Rush." Your mom and I both loved it, but she said she might have liked it more than usual because it was about the bond between a mother and a child.
It is amazing how much you are already affecting our lives - even our taste in movies!
I love you so much!
- Dad
I told you that yesterday was a holiday called Halloween that lots of people celebrate. Today is a holiday that only me and your mom take part in. It was five years ago today that your mom and I first went out on a date. We got burgers at a little dive called Hugo's. Neither of us knew if the other person liked them. I was really nervous. But later in the evening, we saw one of your mom's friends who let it slip that your mom thought I was pretty cool. The rest, as they say, is sweet history! Two-and-a-half years after that first date, mom and I got married. And two-and-a-half years after that - you were born! We evidently like to divide our life into two-and-a-half year segments. I asked your mom today if she thought you'd have a brother or sister in another two-and-a-half years. We both decided we can only think about you right now!
I came to see you in the middle of the afternoon today. While your mom talked to a nurse, I changed your diaper and your clothes, and then fed you a bottle. You ate the whole thing really fast. Your mom and the nurses were really impressed and surprised. You hadn't eaten that cooperatively with anyone before. I have been bragging ever since about how I have the magic touch. Your mom is afraid you might already be a "daddy's girl." I secretly hope she is right.
If you keep eating like you did today, you might get to come home this weekend. Your mom and I are so excited about that prospect, we can hardly think about anything else. We did find time this evening, though, to celebrate our dating anniversary and go see a special sneak preview of a new movie called "August Rush." Your mom and I both loved it, but she said she might have liked it more than usual because it was about the bond between a mother and a child.
It is amazing how much you are already affecting our lives - even our taste in movies!
I love you so much!
- Dad
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